Wednesday, March 30, 2016

How To Save Your Marriage - Tips from One More Happy Ending

What if your marriage is on the thin line?

This is the tips which I sum from One More Happy Ending. After Da Kyung surgery, Gun Hak and Da Kyung decide to mend their relationship. But they still awkward to each other. So they go to Relationship Expert and they are adviced to go to healing camp.

And here I write some of their lesson :

1. Look each other for 10 minutes without speaking at all.

So Da Jung and Gun Hak do what they have been told. And look each other like that, makes Da Jung and Gun Hak smile. Mi Mo suggest to continue their exercise because it's good for them.

2. Say 'Okay..' when your husband/wife express their disappointment.

The instructor explains that it is time for the couple to do the game "Okay ..". This game requires that husband/wife express their disappointment, by using the phrase, "I'm mad at you do this" and "I was really disappointed when you do that".

However, spouse who said that don't use an angry tone and must reply without angry tone either. The purpose of this game is that they have empathy, so when their partners said that their actions had upset her, then the other party would have to say "Okay.." and they do not argue because it will spark an argument.

3. Say I Love You like any other day

This is an easy task for normal spouses, but it's hard for some spouse like Gun Hak and Da Jung. It's already night, Da Jung and Gun Rights've been in their respective rooms. They are equally worried because they have not done their job.

Finally Gun Rights who moved first. When Da Jung washing dishes and suddenly Gun Rights hugged her from behind and said, "I love you." Of course Da Jung shock to find such treatment.

And Gun Hak didn't do only once, but twice.  When Da Jung out of the bathroom, Gun Hak was at the front door and give the shampoo on Da Jung, then said, "I love you."

Gun Rights has completed his task but Da Jung haven't done at all and that makes Da Jung anxious. So Da Jung braced herself to go to Gun Hak's room. Da Jung opened the room door and saw Gun Hak was reading a book. She walked over her husband and said, "I love you ... I love you ... I love you ..," Just like that and go to her room. Hahaha...

In her own room, Da Jung lay down on the bed, covered her face in embarrassment. But she was smiling with relief because she has done her task.

4. Create a nickname for each other

Da Jung and Gun Hak decided to copy a nickname from Secretary Kwak and her partner. Jajang and Jjajangmyun.

5. Go shopping, watching movie and yoga class together

Do you want to try it? Go.. let's do it. And I find that this is not for a couple who need therapy. Every couple should do them for a healthy relationship.

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